Accord avec verbes pronominaux
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All pronominal verbs are être verbs in compound tenses and moods like the passé composé, which means that the past participles must agree with their subjects – at least in theory. In fact, it’s not quite so straightforward.
Pronominal verbs have a reflexive pronoun that refers back to the subject, and that reflexive pronoun represents either the direct object or the indirect object of the verb. Here’s the tricky part:
Agreement is only required when the reflexive pronoun is a direct object.
Which means that when the reflexive pronoun is an indirect object, there’s no agreement. So in order to know whether the past participle neeeds to agree, you have to determine the function of the reflexive pronoun. Here’s how to do that.
1) Pronominal verb with no noun after it Agreement
When you have a pronominal verb that is not followed by a noun, the reflexive pronoun is usually the direct object.*
Par exemple…
Elle s’est réveillée tard. | She woke up late. | |
Nous nous étions soûlés. | We’d gotten drunk. |
2) Pronominal verb + preposition + noun Agreement
When a preposition precedes a noun, that noun is indirect and the reflexive pronoun is direct.
Par exemple…
Huguette s’est adressée au proviseur. | Huguette addressed the principal. | |
Ils se sont fâchés pour la décision. | They got angry about the decision. |
3) Pronominal verb + noun No agreement
When there is no preposition in front of the noun, the noun is direct and the reflexive pronoun is indirect.
Par exemple…
Elle s’est rasé les jambes. | She shaved her legs. | |
Elles se sont lavé les cheveux. | They washed their hair. |
3½) Pronominal verb + object pronoun No agreement with the reflexive pronoun
When the noun is replaced by an object pronoun, that pronoun is of course still direct and the reflexive pronoun is still indirect, so there’s no agreement with the latter.
However, since the direct object now precedes the verb, the past participle is subject to direct object agreement.
Par exemple…
Elle se les est rasées. (agreement with jambes) | She shaved them. | |
Elles se les sont lavés. (agreement with cheveux) | They washed it. |
*4) Indirect object reflexive pronouns No agreement
For 20 verbs, the reflexive pronoun is always an indirect object regardless of any nouns in the sentence. Therefore, the past participle of these verbs never agrees with the reflexive pronoun.**
Why not? When these verbs are used non-pronominally with a noun, they require a preposition, which means the noun is an indirect object. So when that preposition + object are replaced by a reflexive pronoun, the pronoun too is indirect.
Why indirect? | ||||
s’acheter | to buy (for) oneself | acheter pour | ||
se demander | to wonder | demander à | ||
se dire | to say (to oneself / each other) | dire à | ||
se donner | to give (to each other) | donner à | ||
s’écrire | to write (to each other) | écrire à | ||
se faire mal | to hurt oneself | faire mal à | ||
s’imaginer | to imagine, think | *** | ||
se parler | to talk (to oneself / each other) | parler à | ||
se permettre | to allow (oneself / each other) | plaire à | ||
se plaire | to enjoy | permettre à | ||
se procurer | to obtain (for oneself) | procurer à | ||
se promettre | to promise (oneself / each other) | promettre à | ||
se raconter | to tell (each other) | raconter à | ||
se rendre compte | to realize | rendre compte de | ||
se rendre visite | to visit (each other) | rendre visite à | ||
se reprocher | to criticize, blame (oneself / each other) | reprocher à | ||
se ressembler | to resemble (each other) | ressembler à | ||
se rire | to mock | rire de qqun | ||
se sourire | to smile (at each other) | sourire à | ||
se succéder | to follow/succeed (one another) | succéder à | ||
se téléphoner | to call (each other) | téléphoner à |
** However, there is still the possibility of direct object agreement, as per 3½, above.
Par exemple…
Elles se sont donné les cadeaux. | They gave each other the gifts. | |
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*** There’s always an exception, n’est-ce pas ? :-)
Related lessons
- Introduction to verb agreement
- Agreement with vous
- Auxiliary verbs
- Direct objects
- Indirect objects
- Pronominal verbs
- Reflexive pronouns
- Subject pronouns
- Verbs with prepositions
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