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Pronoms neutres et inclusifs
Gender-neutral pronouns, aka inclusive pronouns,* are used to avoid sorting individuals into the binary world of male vs female. Gender-neutral language is evolving in French** and is not considered standard, but is becoming more common, especially on the internet, so it’s important to be able to recognize the most common terms.
Probably the most important aspect of inclusive language has to do with personal pronouns, particularly subject pronouns and stressed pronouns. A neutral pronoun may be used for
- A non-binary person
- A person whose gender the speaker cannot or does not wish to specify
In addition, plural neutral pronouns may be used to avoid referring to a group of mixed gender people with the default masculine plural (ils / eux), as required in standard French grammar.
What are your pronouns?
There is a growing tendency on social media and when meeting people in informal situations to ask "What are your pronouns?" or "Which pronouns do you use?" The French equivalents are
- Quels sont tes pronoms ?
- Quels pronoms utilises-tu ?
The answer to this question will always include a subject pronoun and stressed pronoun.
Par exemple …
|My pronouns are he/him/his.||Mes pronoms sont il/lui.|
|My pronouns are she/her.||Mes pronoms sont elle/elle.|
|My pronouns are they/them/their.||Mes pronoms sont iel/ellui.|
The standard subject pronouns are:
|ils||they (all male or mixed)|
|elles||they (all female)|
By far the most common neutral French subject pronoun is iel
Direct object pronouns
The standard direct object pronouns are:
There are several different neutral French object pronouns and, unlike for the subject pronoun iel, there does not seem to be a clear preference for any one of these over the others.
Neutral direct object pronouns (singular):
The plural les and the elision l’ remain the same.
The standard stressed pronouns are:
|eux||them (all male or mixed)|
|elles||them (all female)|
Neutral stressed pronouns:
- Singular: ellui, iel, luel, luiel, soi
- Plural: elleux, euxelles, euxes, iels
* Though the terms are related and often used interchangeably, there is a difference between gender neutral and inclusive:
- "Gender neutral" does not include any reference to gender: it is used only for non-binary people.
- "Inclusive" refers to language that includes any and all genders.
** And in English, though the use of the singular "they" has been in use since 1375, far longer than the French equivalents: A brief history of singular ‘they’
I consulted a number of different online sources when writing this lesson. Any omissions are unintentional and any mistakes my own. Please let me know so I can keep this page up to date and accurate.
Guide de grammaire neutre et inclusive – This PDF is particularly useful, as it goes into detail about other types of gendered pronouns (possessive, demonstrative) and beyond: articles, noun and adjective endings, and titles. I don’t know how official the guide is, but clearly a great deal of thought and effort has gone into it.
Petit dico de français neutre/inclusif – Based on the author’s 2017 survey of language in the non-binary community.
Qu’est-ce que le pronom iel ? – Includes pronunciation notes on various pronouns as well as comments on grammatical agreement.
Usage d’un langage neutre du point de vue du genre – PDF about the European Parliament’s efforts to use neutral language in official communications, and encourage other organizations to do the same.
- Grammatical gender
- Personal pronouns
- Unisex French names
- Vidéo : C’est quoi, l’écriture inclusive ?